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It’s Just Good Business #23 – Fuel for the Journey

How do you start your day? What do you eat for breakfast? And what does this have to do with business?

Well, what you eat effects how you feel. It effects your energy level and clarity of thinking, among other things. If you are going to show up at your best, then you probably want to treat yourself with care and respect, and nourish you mind/body/spirit with good clean energy.

Pretty much everyday for the past 5 or 6 years I have been drinking my breakfast, Here’s my basic smoothie recipe:

  • One avocado
  • One banana
  • Two dates
  • A handful of kale (always)
  • Two small handfuls of spinach (sometimes), I also use sunflower or other sprouts sometimes
  • One scoop of raw cacao powder
  • One scoop of Tonic Alchemy micro-nutrient formula
  • One scoop of Chia seed (or other fiber flax, psillium, etc.
  • Papaya and/or other fruit – using persimmons now (froze about 50 of them last week)
  • Berries, nectarines, etc as they are in season. All organically grown.
  • A chunk of raw ginger.
  • A couple dashes of cayenne chili powder.
  • Coconut water
  • Two scoops of steep cut oatmeal (soaked overnight) – just started including this at the suggestion of John Mackey, for fiber and to reduce Cholesterol
  • Sometimes I add acai powder or frozen acai

I figure the whole thing is about 800 calories. I can drink this at 6:30 or 7 am and go through a full morning and even work out at noon, then eat lunch at 2 pm.

You don’t have to drink what I do, but I encourage you to think about what you eat and drink – recognizing that it is fuel for your journey of bringing consciousness to work, and on its effect on you and those around you.

Working for Good Challenge – Week 3

In his book The Silent Pulse in a section on entrainment the late George Leonard writes about the Yanomami Indians and how, when two tribes come together their chiefs go out into the nearby jungle, stand nose to nose, and start shouting at each other, and continue to do so for quite a while until they suddenly quiet, and slowly move in mirror image of each other. They then return to their awaiting tribes-members and begin a celebration together.

In the past 20 years neuroscientists have discovered and begun studying something they call  mirror neurons, which, as the name suggests, mirror the experience of another being. An example (and one of the early subjects leading to the discovery): if a monkey sees another monkey eating a peanut, he will have a physiological response as though he is eating it and these mirror neurons are connected to, if not responsible for, this phenomenon.

My friend Richard Miller, founder of the Integrative Restoration Institute, recently told me about his PhD dissertation on how psychotherapists regain empathy with their patients when they lose it (apparently a frequent occurrence) by connecting with empathy for themselves.

The point of these references: tuning into the experiences of other people is perhaps hardwired into our mind/body organism, part of our cultural conditioning and related to our experience of ourselves.

This week’s Working for Good Challenge is Tuning into Others. As social beings, as we have been for tens of thousands or perhaps millions of years, tuning into others is part of our nature and our culture. It is essential for survival and for well-being.

Building on the past two week’s challenges – Practicing Conscious Awareness + Applying Conscious Awareness to a specific focus – the way I suggest approaching Tuning in to Others for this Challenge is to simply observe our internal experience in relation to others; to recognize how we tune into others and how we respond when we feel another person’s experience. (More on this below).

Here is a brief summary of the Working for Good Challenge for those of you who did not read this last week:

The Purpose
of this challenge is to deepen our practice of Working for Good by focusing our attention on essential ideas and actions.

The Process
is simple.

  • Focus Overview: At the beginning of the week, starting this week and continuing for four more weeks, I will send an email outlining the focus for the week.
  • Practice: if you want to participate, you can practice the focus during the day – at work, at home, at play – whenever and however you do so.
  • Dialog: If you have questions, comments or suggestions for me or for others, you can post them at the Working for Good Facebook page, where I will be making and responding to comments, and facilitating conversations.
  • Reflect: At the end of the week I will send a brief email with some questions and reflections, and an invitation to you to reflect on the week’s practice and to join the upcoming week’s Focus/Practice.

Overview of the Six Focuses
Focus #1: Practice Conscious Awareness
Focus #2: Hydrate (applying Conscious Awareness)
Focus #3: Tune in to others
Focus #4: Inquire
Focus #5  Listen
Focus #6: Engage

Focus #3: Tune in to Others

As I observed above, tuning into others is something we are both designed (by nature) and programmed (by culture) to do. It is not necessarily something we have to make ourselves do.

If, however, we want to Tune into Others with Conscious Awareness – we can engage reflection in and to the process of tuning into others.

To activate or support this week’s focus on Tuning into Others, I think I will just add a few suggestions here, and no specific process or preparation. Do whatever you do to tune into your own conscious awareness, however and whenever you do.

A few suggestions or possible approaches. Try as many as you like, and make up your own.

  • When in conversation with others, note how your body moves in relation to theirs. Observe the intonation of your voice and theirs. See if there are ways they move in and out of being similar and different.
  • Observe yourself watching others – in person, on TV, however – and see if you find yourself sensing or even mirroring their actions, expression, emotions, etc.
  • If you have any heated conversations, watch how they progress over time and how they resolve.

I would love to hear stories from you of your experiences with this, and intend to reflect on some of mine on the Working for Good Facebook page.

Working for Good Challenge – Week 2

(Please note that I posted this here a week after I sent it to the Working for Good email list and at the same time as I posted Week 3 here. So don’t be confused if the reference to week 2 and 3 don’t line up with different posting dates).

Building on last week’s focus on Conscious Awareness, this week’s focus is ostensibly on applying Conscious Awareness. OK, what do I mean by “ostensibly on” applying Conscious Awareness?  Through my work with Peter Baumann and The Baumann Foundation, I am deepening my understanding of the fact that things are not always what they appear to be – perhaps rarely what they appear to be. We may think we are making decisions and making something happen, but it seems that decisions are made in and by the organism that is our body/mind literally before we know it. (Here’s a link to one of many current sources of information about how we decide.)

While I have always had somewhat of an aversion to self-help programs and not been interested in creating one (this Working for Good Challenge is NOT a self-help program, but an invitation to reflection and exploration), I am beginning to understand why they fall short and, perhaps, a more reasonable way to approach the idea of growth, development and change. More below!

Here is a brief summary of the Working for Good Challenge for those of you who did not read this last week:

The Purpose
of this challenge is to deepen our practice of Working for Good by focusing our attention on essential ideas and actions.

The Process
is simple.

  • Focus Overview: At the beginning of the week, starting this week and continuing for four more weeks, I will send an email outlining the focus for the week.
  • Practice: if you want to participate, you can practice the focus during the day – at work, at home, at play – whenever and however you do so.
  • Dialog: If you have questions, comments or suggestions for me or for others, you can post them at the Working for Good Facebook page, where I will be making and responding to comments, and facilitating conversations.
  • Reflect: At the end of the week I will send a brief email with some questions and reflections, and an invitation to you to reflect on the week’s practice and to join the upcoming week’s Focus/Practice.

Overview of the Six Focuses
Focus #1: Practice Conscious Awareness
Focus #2: Hydrate (applying Conscious Awareness)
Focus #3: Tune in to others
Focus #4: Inquire
Focus #5  Listen
Focus #6: Engage

Focus #2: Hydrate – Applying Conscious Awareness

Per my opening comment, this weeks’ focus is ostensibly on applying Conscious Awareness, with a focus on hydrating (that is, drinking fluids that deliver water to your cells, for healthy metabolic function). I chose Hydration because it is something that your body/organism will do or seek to do whether you think about it or not. The organism wants to live and without water, it will perish.

What also appears to be true is that because we spend so much time in our heads – with our thoughts and emotions – we are often disconnected from the sensations and related messages coming from our external and internal environments. We don’t hydrate when our body/organism optimally wants us too, but when we get to a point of dehydration – lack of sufficient water for optimal functioning. The nearly out of gas sign is flashing before we fill the tank.

So the idea with this focus is not to remember to hydrate or to drink a prescribed amount of water (or, my favorite, O.N.E. Coconut Water) per day, but to tune into the body sensation of thirst or need for hydration. If your organism is in touch with the sensation of the need for hydration, it will drive you to do so without you really making a decision to do so. And I suspect it will do so before you reach the point of dehydration – of having less than an optimal level of water moving through your body.

This IS an experiment and an exploration of the idea of focusing on the reflective capacity of the mind – on conscious awareness – with some direction, rather than on focusing on a specific action. And you don’t have to focus on hydrating. That is just a suggestion. We do the same thing with breath and breathing. Our body breathes without us asking or making it do so, but while we are wandering around in our heads, we often hold our breath.

Here is one way to work with this focus:

  • Tune in: To begin, sit or stand comfortably and take a few deep breaths. Scan your body to see if you are holding tension anywhere and imagine you are breathing into that area, letting it relax as you exhale.
  • Focus on the feeling of thirst or hydration or thirst being quenched. Are your lips moist or dry? Your mouth? Does your body feel relaxed and expanded or does it feel tight and contracted? (Think of a sponge. When it is hydrated it is soft and expanded. When it is dry or dehydrated it is stiff and tight.) See if you can sense the fluid level in your body. Is it sufficient or deficient?
  • Go for it: Live your life and go through your days as you normally would, with the slight difference of noting and observing your level of hydration. Just that. You don’t have to change anything or fix anything, just observe what you are experiencing. You will drink when you do. And you will pass it through when you do. Perhaps you can focus on the relationship between hydrating and passing liquid through.
  • Optional Tuning In: To support the process of focusing on hydration, you may want to stop and tune in again, as above and check in with what you identified as your focus.
  • Reflect: At the end of the day or the week you may want to reflect on the experience.
  • Share: If you are so inclined, join us on the Working for Good Facebook page and share your experience or raise questions.

I am interested to see if I drink more often or greater quantities or if I reach the “thirsty” point less this week than normally. And to see what other insights or awareness come from focusing attention on the sensation of fluid regulation.

Working for Good Challenge – Spring 2011 Reflection on Week 1

I was delightfully surprised by the response to the invitation to the Working for Good Challenge and could “feel” others moving through the week with a focus on practicing Conscious Awareness.

I posted a few reflections during the week on the Working for Good Facebook page, and invite you to check them out there.

As I noted in my initial comment, my focus this week was on observing the movement between feeling expansive and feeling contracted.

Last night presented the greatest challenge of the week, in the process of guiding Meryl Fé, my 12-year-old daughter to sleep. She returned from a 5-day class trip to Washington, DC and was exhausted, hot, emotionally charged and convinced that she was not going to be able to fall asleep.

My Conscious Awareness practice was put to the test as I had to balance love and compassion, with boundaries. Supporting her with attention, water, cool washcloths and homeopathic remedies, while not fulfilling her every wish or “command.” Sleep ultimately prevailed, and I returned to my desk.

The Focus next week is on applying Conscious Awareness. I named it “Hydrate” to call attention to an action that you can take that is life-sustaining and life-enhancing. You simply function and feel better when your organism is sufficiently hydrated. As you will note, the process begins with Conscious Awareness focused in a particular direction.

Overview of the Six Focuses
Focus #1: Practice Conscious Awareness
Focus #2: Hydrate (applying Conscious Awareness)
Focus #3: Tune in to others
Focus #4: Inquire
Focus #5  Listen
Focus #6: Engage